WARNING! If you are sensitive about discussing intimate sexual details, do not read on.

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OK, for those who are brave enough, here's a sex quiz. Feel free to skip any questions you don't want to answer.

1. At what age did you first have sex?

2. How many sexual partners have you had, not including yourself?

3. How often do you masturbate?

4. Approximately how many times do you orgasm during sex?

5. Do you prefer to be on top during intercourse, on the bottom, sideways, or something entirely different?

6. Have you ever had a threesome? A foursome? Moresome?

7. Where is the strangest place you have had sex?

8. Have you had sex with anything other than a human eg. a cucumber?

9. Have you ever felt sexually attracted to a work colleague?

10. Have you ever had cyber sex?

1. At what age did you first have sex?

21

2. How many sexual partners have you had, not including yourself?

3

3. How often do you masturbate?

It varies, but I would say with regularity, several times a week.

4. Approximately how many times do you orgasm during sex?

1-2

5. Do you prefer to be on top during intercourse, on the bottom, sideways, or something entirely different?

sideways is good, doggystyle is my fave.

6. Have you ever had a threesome? A foursome? Moresome?

not yet

7. Where is the strangest place you have had sex?

A hiking trail behind a boulder.

8. Have you had sex with anything other than a human eg. a cucumber?

I've never been with a cuke but, I have a dildo named Randy.

9. Have you ever felt sexually attracted to a work colleague?

Ahhhh, yeah! Many times. It's how I met my husband.

10. Have you ever had cyber sex?

no

Yay to Chiana for being the first brave person! I suppose I should go next.

1. At what age did you first have sex?

Twenty one.

2. How many sexual partners have you had, not including yourself?

One.

3. How often do you masturbate?

About once a month.

4. Approximately how many times do you orgasm during sex?

Usually about ten times with a partner, and about twenty or more times if masturbating. Hence why I don't need to masturbate much.

5. Do you prefer to be on top during intercourse, on the bottom, sideways, or something entirely different?

Top, for me. I like to straddle.

6. Have you ever had a threesome? A foursome? Moresome?

No, and I doubt that I ever will. One's enough for me.

7. Where is the strangest place you have had sex?

Probably out in the open at my parent's farm. I've done the usual aeroplane, beach, car, work office stuff as well.

8. Have you had sex with anything other than a human eg. a cucumber?

No.

9. Have you ever felt sexually attracted to a work colleague?

All the bloody time.

10. Have you ever had cyber sex?

Almost, but then I decided it was the same as cheating and stopped it.

OK, who's next!

I'll go. Everyone already knows I'm a complete freak, so nothing I say should surprise anyone.

1. At what age did you first have sex?
17

2. How many sexual partners have you had, not including yourself?
Umm... *counts on fingers* 10.

3. How often do you masturbate?
Depends. Whenever the mood strikes me. I've not done it in a long while though. I'm too tired anymore.

4. Approximately how many times do you orgasm during sex?
Two or three, usually. Most I've ever cum during sex? Five.

5. Do you prefer to be on top during intercourse, on the bottom, sideways, or something entirely different?
Again, it depends. As of late, we can describe it as something entirely different.

6. Have you ever had a threesome? A foursome? Moresome?
Nope.

7. Where is the strangest place you have had sex?
HA! The parade grounds at Lackland AFB.

8. Have you had sex with anything other than a human eg. a cucumber?
Yeessss. It's name is BOB. And there's also Rabbit... which is NOT an actual rabbit. It's a vibrator.

9. Have you ever felt sexually attracted to a work colleague?
Once. But then they pissed me off and they weren't attractive anymore.

10. Have you ever had cyber sex?
Once... a very long time ago. I laughed the entire time.

[quote]1. At what age did you first have sex?

Hee Hee 21.... We have ALOT of late bloomers around here,I see.I think thats very ladylike.

2. How many sexual partners have you had, not including yourself?

Ummm Sober 3 or 4...

Ahhh..
Im a total whore (& not proud of it ThanQ)When I drink

Maybe 50-75
Someone posted a link to a sleazy test or something way back when I was the most Sleazy. But not by alot. *Shudder*

3. How often do you masturbate?


Way Way Way Way W-a-a-a-aa-ay Too Much...Im talking Guiness book of Records here ...

4. Approximately how many times do you orgasm during sex?


Usually once but occasionally I come back for seconds & thirds after a bit.

5. Do you prefer to be on top during intercourse, on the bottom, sideways, or something entirely different?


Hmm I like to be Screwed. Literally!
Makes me feel heee hee 'Loved'
So I prefer bottom to top.
But Im big on oral too,must be that wee bit of French ancestry.

6. Have you ever had a threesome? A foursome? Moresome?

Never had the pleasure....Hay did that horn-dog Ame put you up to this..???

7. Where is the strangest place you have had sex?

Im not much into odd places...
I guess it was on a grassy knoll behind a bar once.

8. Have you had sex with anything other than a human eg. a cucumber?
HAY! No Kinky Stuff ,Aggie.
What do you think I am,some kinda Thespian..?.


9. Have you ever felt sexually attracted to a work colleague?
Work ..??? Whats that..???

10. Have you ever had cyber sex?
HAy If I lie about this one Ill be 'outed' here at the scrolls.

I just want to add the ladylike remark was in reference to the previously replying ladies not myself.....

Im NOT ladylike at All... Nuh uh !!!!

1. At what age did you first have sex?
Fourteen

2. How many sexual partners have you had, not including yourself?

I think it's 20-25. I stopped counting sometime in the '80s.


3. How often do you masturbate?
Not at all. I live with my folks right now, that's paranoid-inducing!

4. Approximately how many times do you orgasm during sex?

Once

5. Do you prefer to be on top during intercourse, on the bottom, sideways, or something entirely different?

As many positions as physically possible, changing several times in a session.

6. Have you ever had a threesome? A foursome? Moresome?

Not yet but I'd like to

7. Where is the strangest place you have had sex?
Just in boring places like cars, apartments, the dining room of a restaurant I worked in... I'd like to have sex in a house of worship like a church.

8. Have you had sex with anything other than a human eg. a cucumber?
Hasn't everyone?

9. Have you ever felt sexually attracted to a work colleague?
I've done coworkers! And dated a few.

10. Have you ever had cyber sex?
No. That sounds incredibly booooring.

1. At what age did you first have sex?
20

2. How many sexual partners have you had, not including yourself?
4, I think...

3. How often do you masturbate?
Several times a week.

4. Approximately how many times do you orgasm during sex?
Not everytime. But still enjoy it though.

5. Do you prefer to be on top during intercourse, on the bottom, sideways, or something entirely different?
Tested most ways, and I have no preference. Bottom is my favorite, though.

6. Have you ever had a threesome? A foursome? Moresome?
Threesome, yes. Several times. Girl - girl - boy. And it was wonderful. According to her, I was good to. So was she. Says my love to.

7. Where is the strangest place you have had sex?
At the student union pub... behind the bar after closing time.

8. Have you had sex with anything other than a human eg. a cucumber?
Yes. Candle, banana and dildo.

9. Have you ever felt sexually attracted to a work colleague?
No.

10. Have you ever had cyber sex?
Yes. And phone-sex, wish I enjoy alot.

quote:

Originally posted by Brucy Braless:

1. At what age did you first have sex?

Hee Hee 21.... We have ALOT of late bloomers around here,I see.I think thats very ladylike.

I think that's very sexist.

You have QUITE an imagination lately..


Its inferred not implied.

I have been cogitatin' on this a bit ....


What do you think I mean...????

If I may ask.

quote:

Originally posted by Brucy Braless:

You have QUITE an imagination lately..

How patronising.

quote:

Its inferred not implied.

And the difference between inferred and implied would be ...??

Inferred or implied I still find it sexist.

You tell ME what you meant.

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Originally posted by Argeaux:
And the difference between inferred and implied would be ...??

*throws up hand*
ooh ooh! i know! can i answer!? can i? can i???

Yeah, I actually know.

I just wanted to give Brucy more reasons to think and post, since he keeps taking the bait.

*ssssshhhhh*

In all honesty I did want to yap ALOT more on this subject.(Sexuality)

But Ive been busy takin care of the Cat Who would not die. She cant really control functions too well anymore & NEEDS a bath every other day.Which she likes about as much as ANY cat likes to be dunked in sink fulla water.

So right now Im wet & shitty smelling & need to begin this days runnning around its Awready 4pm & Hot as Hell outside.


I have some situations that are lookin BAD on the horizon.
They are probably permanent.
I can neither avoid them & nor have much influence on them.
I thought,think,thunk that you were/are mad at me for Im not sure what.
So I actually didnt sleep at all last night.Because of everything.
I did however make up for it a bit this AM & Afternoon.

If youre not pissed off yet are typin in a confrontational style the use of Smileys is a good Idea.I have been told that what Argy puts em there for.


Perhaps Ame just decided she was too busy lately & asked you to kick me occasionally &/or rattle my cage.


I would like to say this.....
I think 'ladylike' is a compliment.

And after all of my idiotic sexual escapades I wish I had remained faithful & monogamous.
My wife was my first lover,& she justifiably dumped me.
Its not worked out well for me NOR her & my daughter (as most children do)has suffered the most for both of our ill-conceived actions.


I also think that a promisciuty promoting society does a vast dis-service for the Majority of its youth & citizenry.


I also highly suspect that whomever most scrollers think I am{judging by what I type}Im alot more than that limited impression.As imsure are most of us.

so in comnclusion Id like to shout...

"I SHALL RETURN!" ... ummm I think.

I don't hate you.

I hate the way you post very rude things, that insult others, from time to time.

I have one final question: why is it 'ladylike' to have sex at an older age?

Right.. Now I am going to chock people... Espically considering what i wrote as an answer to this little Quiz... Because it IS still a quiz thread, right?

OK then... I actually agree with Brucy. I found it flattering that he called it ladylike. Nothing wrong with the word. Being a late bloomer is a good thing. Especially when talking about sex. Oh, I know. As soon as we come to discussions about legal age, I say that the legal age in Sweden is 15. And it is. And I think it is right, since everyone matures differntly. But I also thinkt that having sex to early is idiotic. I was 20. I could have had sex for five years, then. But I didn't. Being ladylike is not saving yourself for Mr Right. It is saving yourself for the right moment. When everything is just... right.

I am sorry, Argy. I really don't understand how you can see it as sexist. It is not. Unless one lives in the 19th centuray. Explain to me, would you?

Just my two cents...

quote:

Originally posted by Drusilla:

I found it flattering that he called it ladylike. Nothing wrong with the word.

I didn't say there was anything wrong with that word. Don't imply that I did.

quote:

I also thinkt that having sex to early is idiotic.

So do I.

quote:

Being ladylike is not saving yourself for Mr Right.

Then what is it? What do you and Brucy think is 'ladylike' about 'late bloomers'.

quote:

I am sorry, Argy. I really don't understand how you can see it as sexist. It is not. Unless one lives in the 19th centuray.

I think what Brucy said IS sexist and I live in the 21st century.

I would like someone to answer my question: why is it 'ladylike' to have sex at an older age?

quote:

I would like someone to answer my question: why is it 'ladylike' to have sex at an older age?

i'll try to answer this as best i can, then again i have a rather different version of the word "ladylike" than the typical sexist version...you know, the version where a girl is scared to do what she wants til she's older, going on puritan type attitudes and not what she herself wants. I actually think being a "lady" is being a strong woman, one who does what she wants, just celebrates her femininnity and takes care of it...in other words, ain't NO body getting some until i am ready, end of story, no one will push me to have sex before i'm ready thanks. But she is in control, not society. I THINK that's what Brucy meant...is it, Brucy?

Anyway that's just my take on it. Now I think I need to bring this thread back to the point...so here goes lol.

1. At what age did you first have sex?
19.

2. How many sexual partners have you had, not including yourself?
about 12

3. How often do you masturbate?
Not often enough, i tend to like to share the wealth.

4. Approximately how many times do you orgasm during sex?
About ten.

5. Do you prefer to be on top during intercourse, on the bottom, sideways, or something entirely different?
I like being on top, particularly cuz i love tantra...something erotic about sitting on a man and looking into his eyes...phenomenal. But john actually does prefer the top lol so we alternate.

6. Have you ever had a threesome? A foursome? Moresome?
Yes and it's wonderful when shared with the right people who respect your marriage.

7. Where is the strangest place you have had sex?
The beach. and in front of my webcam, we made a video once, lol.

8. Have you had sex with anything other than a human eg. a cucumber?
Vibrators are awesome. Dildos, ehh...kinda dead.

9. Have you ever felt sexually attracted to a work colleague?
I dated a couple work colleagues. Always quit the job when we broke up.

10. Have you ever had cyber sex?
Yes. It's quite nice, it's all about language, words that is, which i seldom use during physical sex...but it's a different experience.

I thought hard on how to answer your question, Argy. Really I did. I even discussed it with my love. But you, Black. You tock the words right out of my mouth. Couldn't have said it better. To me 'ladylike' is just a saying, just like the saying: "It is raining cats and dogs". Still see it as a compliment. And your words shows just way.

quote:

Originally posted by Sirius Black:

quote:

I would like someone to answer my question: why is it 'ladylike' to have sex at an older age?

i'll try to answer this as best i can, then again i have a rather different version of the word "ladylike" than the typical sexist version...you know, the version where a girl is scared to do what she wants til she's older, going on puritan type attitudes and not what she herself wants. I actually think being a "lady" is being a strong woman, one who does what she wants, just celebrates her femininnity and takes care of it...in other words, ain't NO body getting some until i am ready, end of story, no one will push me to have sex before i'm ready thanks. But she is in control, not society. I THINK that's what Brucy meant...is it, Brucy?

Argy Wrote:
I don't hate you.

I hate the way you post very rude things, that insult others, from time to time.


Ok I didnt say/think you Hated me ... But In my infinite wisdom I did detect you were/are Angry.Im sorry I have offended you.That was never my intent.My intent however i to make people think.... No,more re-think their ideas/presumptions about things.
I suspect this started with my comments in the PC thread elsewhere in Fight Club.PC is essentiallly 'Word Police","Thought Police" kinda stuff it started out benignly.People shouldn't say things that are hurtful to others.
But after awhile in the 90s it grew into nonsense like 'sexual harassment is ANYTHING the victim decidied it was. A simple comment such as :

"You look nice today."

Could be seen as an unwanted sexual advance & could conceivably end up in court.Needless to say this got to be Liberal Oppression of the worst order.Americans believe deeply in freeedom of speech.This PC thing didnt last too long as it was headed towards witch-hunt territory.

I say alot of the things I say to make people rethink whats considered a done deal. Race relations are STILL seen by alot of US liberals in EXACTLY the same way. If theres a problem between a white & a Black .. the whites OBVIOUSLY a Rascist. No need to think no need to consider the facts Instant BS answer.Thats alot of what that ones about .

Below I have posted a link to the lyrics of the Song you found so offensive,consider it in its entirety,please.
Ill say that George McGovern only ran for Election once in 1972.He was ULTRA liberal & was trounced.I wanted to vote for him but I was 17.
Instead we got the Criminal Prez Richard Nixon.

The song is actually pretty funny.
UneasyRider Lyrics



By the way Im relived to know you dont hate me.

Oh I found the term Cock-sucking Cowboy offensive(Made by someone else in GF} ... Cowboys are American ,ya know..but since Im NEITHER a cocksucker or a Cowboy ...I didnt feel it was my place to complain about it.



BSG is on now,More Later.

This message has been edited. Last edited by: Brucy Braless,

Argy Hissed vehemently, {J/K }

I think that's very sexist.
I have one final question: why is it 'ladylike' to have sex at an older age?

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Ok It could be Sexist if I believed it was OK for males to 'mis-behave' sexually. I dont happen to thinks "Its OK for guys".
So,therefore,my personal beliefs are,if not to your taste,at least consistent,arent they..??


Its my impression that sexuality is powerful enough that those who start early tend to neglect other parts of ...'Growing Up".Not always but often enough.That tends to lead to other risky behaviors.Younger teens,at least here in the USA,usually do not use protection or birth control.they are also likely toengage in other risky behaviors.
So I thought what I considered a throw away remark,complimenting those who wait was a good thing to do.

Now on to the word 'ladylike'.
I would like to start by pointin out its mostly a value judgement thing & Im sure everyones idea about this is different.
I could post some examples of say ,celebrities, that are ladylike/unladylike which would set some large parameters around my version of the concept.But I dunno that it would accomplish anything.

Ulrich & I used to have discussions like this ...
( Xcept no one was totally pissed off).
I miss them.Again Im sorry my ways upset you.
But also thanks for callin me to explain myself.
As much as I find it distressing that Ive upset you.
I think you will find that we probably have more in common than different in our world views & values.

But well hay !
Ive been wrong before.


I seem to have left the impression with you that Im some sort of{dare I say the name?) Buccarroo. Umm ...well,at least in these parts, nothing could be further from the truth.


Oh yeah...I wasnt being patronizin Neither ...I was trying to be jovial & friendly.Not that its likely a lady of your caliber would wanna be friends with the my kind .....(poke poke)

quote:

Originally posted by Brucy Braless:

Below I have posted a link to the lyrics of the Song you found so offensive,consider it in its entirety,please.

Did you actually bother to go and check what I wrote?

quote:

Originally posted by Argeaux:

Could we be careful when throwing around a word like 'fag' on the Scrolls?

In this case it was probably not used to denigrate gay or lesbian people, but some may mistakenly read it that way.

Mmmmm-kay?

Where does that say that I found the song lyrics offensive?

I didn't. Another Scroller did.

That is what I meant by hating the way you post very rude things, that insult others, from time to time.

quote:

Originally posted by Brucy Braless:

As much as I find it distressing that Ive upset you.

This is speculation. Nowhere have I said that I am upset.

People keep explaining what they mean by the word 'ladylike' and then what they think is good about having sex at an older age.

What they HAVEN'T done is tell me why the two ideas were combined by Brucy.

I would like an answer that deals with the WHOLE of my question at once: why is it 'ladylike' to have sex at an older age?

Thank you.

One part, ONE SMALL PART (!) of being ladylike to me is having sex at an older age. I have a very dear dear friend that is younger than me (22) and has had sex since before the age of 15. And she is VERY ladylike. So, it is just a small, small part of it.