...Died this morning at 07:30am, as a result of the spreading cancer she had. She was 31 and has a three month old baby boy, Joseph. Her and her husband David, had been married little over a year.
Some things in this world just aren't right, no matter how hard you try to justify them.
True, Linx..., some things aren't just... nor do they make any sense to cling on to. ... and I know how you feel right now. I won't give you any 'chin up, girl' or 'time heals' speeches, cos right now all that counts for all left behind is... just coping. Huddle up... and please don't be alone down there. I wish you and everybody of the family at a loss the strength to pull through this.
Take good care of yourself, d'ya hear? If there isn't any sense, you'll have to make it.
vibing Ulrich
Posts: 314 | Location: Germany | Registered: 02 July 2003
Sorry for your loss Linxi. I'm also sorry for all of us who never got to meet her - I am sure she was a wonderful person.
People will tell you it gets easier or time will heal all wounds. It's not true. My sister is also gone and I still miss her - every single day. When you need to cry - just make sure you don't cry alone.
In a time like this I am reminded of a poem you wrote when my mom passed away March 2000. Here are those lovely words you penned in hope that they comfort you as they did me:
quote: Doesn't seem quite right you want to wake up from this nightmare and make it all a dream All we'll ever really know though is nothing is ever what it seems.
Some people live in fortune, Other exist in pain. Searching for our purpose is much better than dying in vain.
Knowing that she's out there, never far away, keep that thought in your mind each and every day.
If in your soul her memory lives then she is always alive soaking in the memory of her dying Won't allow your soul to strive.
It's so sad and unfortunate. I will keep you and your family in my prayers tonight. Be strong. Your sister is watching over you now, and I'm sure she doesn't want you to fall apart because of this. Like False Hope said, don't cry alone. You will always miss her, but it will get better eventually. Still, the wounds will never completely heal. Just remember, we're always here for you when you need our support. Make sure to have a good cry when you need to. Don't keep your emotions inside, or else it will get worse.
I am so sorry for your loss Linxi. It comes as sudden news to me, but I suppose you have been suffering with this for a long time. Even so, the finality of death is more than anyone expects. Give yoursenf time for this part too.
You will remember her beauty in more ways than you realize now, and that will be an unexpected blessing as time passes.
Hey babe, I posted in your livejournal too. Didn't start crying until I read what you wrote there. I hope you slept okay after we said bye to each other.
<33333333 Give Talie a hug for me.
Posts: 7 | Location: Fl, USA | Registered: 22 June 2003
Linxi: I'm sure that you probably don't remember me, but I remember you when I used to come to the Scroll and you are one of the scrollers that I still remember fondly. Your sister was a beautiful woman and I know that you and your family are going through hard times right now. My prayers are with you tonight and for as long as you need them. I wish I could be there to give you some real hugs, but I hope these virtual hugs do some good *HUGS*.
As we all are, I am thinking of your family in their time of need. I hope you have some close family and friends to grieve with, as it makes the process somewhat easier..(although it is never easy)
My thoughts also go out to your brother in law and nephew.
Posts: 4830 | Location: Michelle @ work | Registered: 22 June 2003
Thanks all so much for your support. I guess I just can't believe its real, although we were told she was going to survive, we were told she had at least two months.
Doctors are so screwed. Last time they said three days, and she was here for two months more, and now they say two months, and its three days later. I don't understand them sometimes. It doesn't seem right at all, she was fine 6months ago. She was diagnosed in the first week of september and we were going to disney world june next year
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